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Today's Truth: Hemingway on the Worrying Writer

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Ernest Hemingway (such a looker...)

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My question to you is: Do you often think about and/or worry about your writing? About getting your ideas onto the page? About your characters and thier stories?

Here is what Hemingway says about writing everyday and about 'worrying'. 

Mice(young writer to Hemingway): How much should you write a day?

Y.C. (Hemingway): The best way is always to stop when you are going good and when you know what will happen next. If you do that every day when you are writing a novel you will never be stuck. That is the most valuable thing I can tell you so try to remember it.

Mice: All right.

Y.C.: Always stop while you are going good and don't think about it or worry about it until you start to write the next day. That way your subconscious will work on it all the time. But if you think about it consciously or worry about it you will kill it and your brain will be tired before you start. Once you are into the novel it is as cowardly to worry about whether you can go on the next day as to worry about having to go into inevitable action. You have to go on. So there is no sense to worry. You have to learn that to write a novel. The hard part about a novel is to finish it.

Mice: How can you learn not to worry?

Y.C.: By not thinking about it. As soon as you start to think about it stop it. Think about something else. You have to learn that.

By-Line: Ernest Hemingway, pp.216-217, (pg. 41-42 Ernest Hemingway on Writing Edited by Larry W. Phillips)

I think about my YA novel everyday. Whether I do any writing for it or not, I am constantly thinking about it and hoping for a window of time to sit down and work on it. 

I think about blogs for The Windsor Star. I write down my ideas on the wordpress site and then go back to fill in the actual writing when I get the chance. 

I think about what to write in this blog. What themes I want to write about and how my writing life is going. 

I think it's safe to say that I think about writing about 30% of my day. Maybe more. Does thinking equal worrying? Sometimes thinking shifts into worry when I don't get to actually write. Just ask the hubby. He can see my worry from thrity miles away. 

Does this tire me out? Yes. 

Am I finished my novel? No. 

Have I ever worried myself into 'inaction'? Yes. 

Do I stop writing when the writing's 'good'? It depends. 

I've been thinking a lot about Hemingway's point that to think about, to worry about one's writing is not a good idea. I've been thinking about it a lot because it doesn't fit my writing process. And I sort of wish I could invite Hem over for some tea so we could talk about it together. 

I did the next best thing. I called my writing partner (that's what I'm calling you from now on, C.L.M.) to see what his opinion was on the matter. 

He brought up a valid point, which is as follows (he likely said it more eloquently than this!):

If we were able to write every day like Hemingway did, then we could easily subsrcibe to this writing process. Of course it would be great to stop when the going was good if we knew that the next day we could pick right up where we left it. Of course it would be essential to leave the 'worrying' to the subconscious because, again, we've got tomorrow to get back to the words. 

It's like our current 'day' jobs. While they're not 'writing' jobs, they are jobs all the same, and when we're finished them, we don't go home and worry about them or at least we do are best to not worry or think about them. We relax, rest, do other things then 'the day job work'. We know we're going back tomorrow. We know we can pick up where we left off. 

I whole-heartedly agree. I know that I worry about what I want/need to write because I don't get to do it every day. Even with two writing days a week, they are not consecutive and they are not consistently for working on the same project. Call that poor time management or a busy life or whatever, but the state of my writing life has me always yearning for more...and doing my best to appreciate the time I do have to write. It's about fitting it in more than anything. Having said that, 'thinking about' my stories, my characters or anything writing-related is a constant in my daily life. I have to be prepared for when time lovingly unfolds a space for me to write or even better when I actully 'write' on one of my days that I'm 'supposed' to be doing just that. 

Mostly, I just want to finish my YA novel. Like, really badly. 

I know that means giving it priority and I'm not quite sure why I don't do that. Fear, probably. But that's bunk cuz there's nothing to be afraid of...except more rejection or even worse - success. Right? 

What are your thoughts on the worrying writer? Are you a worrying writer? 

Jett on set

Jett was able to be in one of the commercials we are filming this week. 

Here he is enjoying the 'props' and the 'set'....Just loving playing and being his cute self!

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Of course, at one point during the shoot, he stopped the whole thing to tell daddy (the director) that he had an idea for a shot. It was so sweet and perfect!! He's got it in his blood!

Great job, Goose!! You're a star!!!

Paul Vasey to launch new 'controversial' book at Phog Lounge May 29th

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Tuesday, May 29th, 2012 at Phog Lounge

You must make reservations!

Call or email Phog: 

Call 519-253-1605 after 5 p.m. or email your request for reservations tophoglounge@gmail.com.

Here's an article in The Windsor Star....

http://blogs.windsorstar.com/2012/05/23/local-author-paul-vasey-to-release-controversial-new-novel-at-phog-lounge-on-may-29th/

 

Congratulations, Paul!!

Tuesday's Truths - GETS A NEW NAME

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I've made a decision.

I've decided that Tuesday is 'any day'. 

There are truths about writing to be told any day. Every day. Today. 

Therefore, I rename my 'post dedicated to writing' TODAY'S TRUTH. 

I thereby release the pressure to write this blog on Tuesdays and write it when I write it. On the day that is TODAY.

Thank you. 

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Celebrate Writers Through Random Acts of Kindness - late but still worth the celebration!

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Kindness is POWERFUL. Even the smallest gesture can fuel a person and keep them going.

All over the blogosphere today, you'll see Random Acts of Kindness toward Writers.These are by people who want to share their appreciation for those who have helped or supported them at some point along the Writing Path.

From The Bookshelf Muse, Angela Ackerman

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Although this week of celebraing writers through random acts of kindness has 'officially' come and gone, I simply must write a blog about it - and, of course, celebrate the writers in my life who fill my heart with inspiration and my pages with words. 

 

Ackerman asks:

How many of these people do YOU rely on?  

  • Critique Partners, who spend hours showing us how to make our work gleam
  • Writing Groups, who cheers us on 
  • Writing Friends, who listen, support & and be our rock when we have doubts
  • Authors and Illustrators, who inspire us through their books and art
  • Book bloggers & Librarians, who open our minds to incredible books we might not have otherwise read
  • Blog Visitors & Readers, who spend time with us, sharing their thoughts, ideas and opinions
  • Industry Professionals (Agents, Editors, Copy editors, etc.)  who help us to improve our writing and succeed

I tell you, I celebrate them all. On a daily basis, my inbox fills with thought-provoking blogs from writers and agents, authors and readers leaving comments that burst my heart open, and my friends that are writers (who are also AMAZING HUMAN BEINGS) who challenge me and pick me up out of the rejection darkness and mean reds and keep me writing. 

I celebrate you all! And I'd like to take this opportunity to tell you how grateful I am that you all continue to be BRAVE expressers of the written word. 

In no particular order (or where everyone is NUMBER ONE):

Nick, Christopher, Marty, Danica, Jess, Janine, Dee, D, Mom, Nonni, Rita, Brenda, Jett, Miller, Karen, Penny-Anne, Mo, Jan, Anne Marie, Mary Ann, Terri-Ann, Jane, Helen, Rachel, Gordon, Kelly, Heather, Dom, Mitch, Kevin, Susan, Ann Marie, Lisa, Mary S, Kate, Bob, Lenore, Di, Kahlil, Stephen, Judy, John, John, Paul, Charlotte, Ernest, William, Virginia, Craig, Toni, Shirley, Greg, Greg, Marie, Amanda, Lauren, Alice, Harriet, Richard....and on and on and on and on...If your name is not up here...and you think it should be - please know in your heart I celebrate you! (It's harder than I thought to make a list of all the writing folks in my life I celebrate!)

What writers do you celebrate? Tell them. 

Happy writing. Happy reading. 

 

 

SLAMHomophobia Poetry Reading a Smashing Success!

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I was honoured to take the stage with several writers and readers from the area as we each took our swing at homophobia. I was nervous as heck, but I managed to find enough saliva to read two new poems and get some hearty laughter from the packed-house crowd at the Windsor Pride Centre in downtown Windsor. 

Here's what writer/poet/Derby girl Kate Hargreaves (she also read two pieces!) had to say about the event:

http://www.ourwindsor.ca/2012/05/windsor-pride-slams-homophobia-with-3rd-annual-poetry-night/

For those of you just dying to read my 'Hole' poem, here it is: (This one had the crowd laughing and getting a bit serious too. It's my commentary on how we judge each other by what things we use our different holes for. I mean, at the end of the day, a hole is a hole is a hole, right? But love is love is love - and as far as I'm concerned, it's the LOVE PART that matters.) 

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Hole

 

A hole is a hole is a hole

 

Stick it

Pick it

Rub it

Scrub it

 

A hole is a hole is a hole

 

Lick it

Flick it

Eat it

Beat it

 

A hole is a hole is a hole

 

Stroke it

Choke it

Pet it

Wet it

 

A hole is a hole is a hole

 

Fuck it

Suck it

Pat it

Bat it

 

A hole is a hole is a hole

 

It’s not the hole it’s what you do with it

 

Or is it?

 

Love is love is love is love

 

Teach it

Preach it

Share it

Scare it

 

Love is love is love is love

 

Save it

Grave it

Take it

Break it

 

Love is love is love is love

 

Say it

Gay it

Straight it

Fate it

 

Love is love is love is love

 

Give it

Live it

See it

Be it

And for those wondering about the might beef curtains, here is Who Are We?: (Again, got lots of big laughter with this one...I wonder, why are so many of our sexual acts food/eating related, anyway?! If we can come up with all these different ways of talking about sex, again, does the actual 'act' make a difference? Is not love what should spread beef curtains and pack fudge? Indeed. Indeed. )

Who Are We?

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We are

Ambisextrous angel

Arse bandits

Munching carpets

Packing fudge

Biting pillows

Swallowing swords

Burping sperm

 

Brownie tearoom queens

Dutch boys

Pig latin agfays

Faghole cunts

Muff diving skanks

Spreading beef curtains

with ease

 

Looking very forward to stand on stage next year!